Children are our future so their raising in a good and carring individuals is very important. To raise a morally good child, a child that cares and respect others, it has always been and will be a difficult task for every parent. But it is something that we can all do. And there is no other thing that is more important and which can bring us greater reward than this. Most parents are already tired of the stories that technology has harmed their children. Mothers and fathers of the digital age are aware of growing competition in attracting the attention of the child and with each click being bombarded with new, cutting-edge ideas and newly created concerns that affect the education of children.

 

But underneath all that insanity of modern times, the basic moral education of the child has changed. Parents want their children to achieve their goals and find their fortune, but scientists at Harvard believe that because it does not have to suffer kindness and empathy. They represent a few tested strategies that represent the best way for your child to form in a morally right person and someone who is oriented toward meeting its goals. We present 6 practical bits of advice:

  1. Spend time with your children
    This is the basis of everything. Spend quality time, ask them open-ended questions about themselves, about the world and how they see it and listen carefully to their answers. In addition, you will learn which things make your child specially and you will show to them how to take care and interest in other people.
  2. What is important, say it loud and clear
    According to scientists, although the majority of parents and caregivers say that child care is a priority, often children do not listen to that message. So tell that. So they will know that it is something to get used to and consult with teachers, coaches and other people who work with your child, how they find their way in teamwork, how they collaborate and if they grow in a good person.
  3. Show the child how to solve a problem
    Implement them through the process of making decisions that can affect other people. For example, if a child wants to give up the sport it’s been training or some other activity, encourage them to identify the source of the problems and to reconsider its commitment to the team. Then help them to know if waiver really solves the problem.
  4. Introduce routine of aiding and gratitude
    According to scientists, studies have shown that people who have a habit of expressing gratitude are generous, sensitive, more willing to help and forgive, but also, they have a greater chance to be happier and healthier. Therefore, it is recommended that parents to stick to these basics, asking children to help with their brother, sister and be grateful for what they will do. And when it comes to rewarding “good behavior”, scientists recommend parents to reward extraordinary, unusual acts of kindness.
  5. Pay attention to negative emotions
    The ability to care for others can be reduced when you feel hard feelings, shame, envy, or other negative emotions. Helping children to identify, designate and analyze those emotions, leading them to a safe and secure resolution of conflicts that continue to keep focused on it to be caring beings. It is also important to set clear and reasonable boundaries that they will understand and that they realize that you made them by love and concern for their safety.
  6. Show the children the big picture of the situation
    “Almost all children compassion and caring for the small circle of family and friends,” the researchers said. The essence is to learn to take care of people who are social, culturally and even geographically outside that circle. This can be achieved so that they learn to carefully listen to others, that will encourage them to step into the shoes of other people and can be found in “their shoes” and practicing empathy through specific examples from news or entertainment.